You’re out at a party and everyone is having a great time.
They’re enjoying themselves and you are sitting in the corner wondering what to do to make that hot girl notice you!
You sit there getting more and more nervous, looking like a wallflower. That’s no way to live your life!
Learn how to attract women properly without being a chump.
The first thing you need to do is stop being so uptight! It comes across as weak and humourless and that’s no fun! Women can tell when you’re afraid, they’re like wild animals – they can smell your fear.
They want someone who is confident and can protect them from the other dangerous men. That’s why you see so many ladies with those great big brainless sportsmen.
Confidence is key
Luckily you don’t have to have a six-pack, and you don’t have to be six feet tall to attract the woman of your dreams. Most women want someone who pays attention to them and who they can have a fun time with. Perhaps you are that person! How will you know if you don’t try? If you stay quiet, you’ll fail 100%. She will never know how much fun you are if you don’t open your mouth and speak up – you’ll be in the corner feeling frightened, and she will be swooped up by someone else. All it takes is for you to make a little effort and show her all your good qualities!
Put your shoulders back and your head up, and walk into that room as if you own it. There’s nothing more boring than a man who scuttles into a party as if he doesn’t belong there. Don’t worry about who is watching, just be relaxed and prepared to have a good time! Women like someone who is smiling and who has a sense of humour. If you have a smile on your face you’ll instantly stand out and seem more confident, women love that! Decide before you walk in that you’re going to be friendly, happy and have a great time, then go in and do it!
When you’ve practised this a few times you’ll notice the difference. You will be feeling more confident and ready to go up to that pretty girl and talk to her. Have an idea of what you’re going to say though, because it looks silly if you open your mouth and no words come out! She doesn’t know that you’re shy, so pretend you are completely in control of the situation and just go for it!
If she doesn’t respond in the way you want but is friendly, that’s good! You might become friends, and girls who have friends are good to know! The important thing is that you say something rather than stand there in silence. If you don’t try it, you will never know what could have happened. You might have just spoken the first words to the love of your life, or you might have made an awesome friend, either way it’s all good!
If you are a fun guy who makes an effort, most girls will really appreciate that and make an effort to talk to you in return. Let your natural personality shine through and make the most of the situation.
So remember, when you are able to demonstrate your killer personality in a way that ALL women can see and are attracted to, by being supremely confident, you’re not going to have any problems with meeting other women in the future.
Once you have confidence you don’t need to have a good car, or a big bank account or a hot body to give you an edge around women. Sure having those things do help, but it’s not going to be enough for you to solely rely upon in the long run.
A great analogy is this. A guy who looks like he’s a great karate fighter who wears the right gear and has a black belt but has no confidence in his ability to actually win a real fight is like a guy with a lot of cash but no game. All you need to do beat that karate fighter is challenge him and make him doubt himself. Once that happens he’s going to not want to fight you and give up.
The same thing goes with other guys who have the looks and money, but do not have the confidence in themselves. All you need to do to beat them and stand out is be the guy that has more self esteem and self assurance in yourself. Once they see this and realize that you do not have a flash car or a big bank account, yet you’re STILL so confident then that’s going to make them scared of you and not want to compete with the women around you.
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