So you’re a nice guy, you’re smart, funny and have a lot to offer a girl.
I mean, all your guy friends think you’re super cool to hang out with to play online games with. In fact, you’ve been told on many occasions when you’re playing WoW that you’re a “funny guy” by female characters.
But why are you still asking yourself “why can’t I get a girlfriend”.
Well, unfortunately dating and seduction wasn’t a subject that was taught at skills. So the average guy (unless he is a natural born player) will suffer their own fair share of rejections before they crack the code and discover what really attracts a woman.
Most of the time, there’s nothing wrong with you at the core, but it’s the way that you present yourself that’s causing you to have problems getting a girlfriend.
Yes, like most things in life, your success or failure depends on how well you’re able to package something and market it. The same goes with dating. I know this is a sad fact, but the sooner you face and accept it as reality the faster you’re going to be able to get a girlfriend.
The way you come across decides if you get a girlfriend or not
So let’s look at some of the things that you can fix in order to get the girls of your dreams.
1. Don’t be “scruffy”
I know a lot of guys tend to forget about this, but please make sure you pay attention to basic hygiene. I’m not asking you to do a lot, but at least shave and wash your hair. Please, brush your teeth before you leave the house. Most guys forget that they need to end up talking to women so if you come across as being dirty and scruffy, you’re not going to get very far. Plus, this shows a lack of maturity and self respect.
2. Get female friends
Before you cross the line and get a real girlfriend, why don’t you actually hang out with some of them to see what it’s really like. Most guys who have no idea how to get a girlfriend lack basic socialising skills. So this means chances are they don’t really know how to act around women in general – because they don’t have any female friends!
So how do you get around this? Take it upon yourself to participate in activities where girls are drawn to. For example, go take a yoga class or do some hip hop dancing. These places have fit and attractive women, most of them will be very confident in the way they are, so it’s unlikely you’re going to end up dating them. But, they will be open to help you find girls to date!
3. Get educated
In order to be interesting and attractive you need to be able to talk about topics and express your opinions and ideas in a way that can only be done if you know what you’re talking about. So what does this mean? Go and read some books about how to influence and persuade people, not only will this help you with confidence and dating, it’ll be beneficial to your business and career.
Another bonus about being educated is that you’re going to stand out from most of the other guys whose only education comes from watching American Idol or X Factor. Unlike those guys you’re going to be well informed, opinionated and actually have real reasons to justify the conclusion that you came up with. Having a brain and being far more intelligent than the guys around you is something that women look for in a long term mate.
4. Be dominant but not domineering
You need to have an opinion and take the lead when making decisions. So that means you need to lead the conversation and guide her to talk about what you want to find out. Do not let her steer the conversation because she’s going to do a bad job at it. Also, you need to let her know that you’re a confident man, so whenever you get the chance, take the lead. Just make sure you don’t come across as overbearing and unreasonable.
As you can see, once you can fix up the above mentioned areas, sooner or later you’re going to effortless meet and attract women. In time you’re going to thank me for writing this article. But remember, you have to be the one that takes active steps and make changes to your life in order to see any result occur. Otherwise you’re just going to live the life you always had. That means, if you never had a girlfriend, then you’re not going to get one in the future, unless YOU do something about it.
So go out there and take action my friend!
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