Before the days of text messaging, it was very hard to get a girl’s phone number. Now they will give you their phone number very easy because they expect you will start talking with them on text before you talk to them. This is also very good for guys. It can be easier to start texting with someone instead of having to make that embarrassing first call.
You can get to know them better before you meet again, or before you have to talk. The texting phase of a relationship has become very important. Mess it up and you will not even get to meet her again. Here are some very important tips to using it your advantage. For more information about how to text a girl, read this: http://www.tsbmag.com/2008/01/14/rules-for-the-pua-texting-girls/
- Always end what you say in a question. The key to texting is to always cause her to need to reply. You don’t want to say how are you because it will be too easy for her to answer. You should say something that causes her to need to think about what you asked and give a reply. Keeping a text message going is important.
- Be different. We all know girls have it much easier in the dating game. You are not the only guy who is trying to date or talk to her. You should try and make yourself stand out from the rest by being creative. For example, when you say hello, you can ask her to choose the ice cream flavor you are about to eat. If you know it is something she will like you will always get answer and she will like you more.
- Be positive. Texting will create an image about you in her mind with only a few words. If you say you are tired a few times in a row, she will see you as always being tired. Make sure you sound like a positive person who is always having a good time. At the same time, don’t tell her how good things are for you that will only make her think you only care about yourself. Be positive without saying too much about how good you are getting it. Being positive and saying good things about yourself are very different.
- Make her jealous. Jealousy is a very powerful tool to use, especially with girls. Always make her think you are doing things she would like to do. Don’t tell her you are busy at work; tell her you are busy because you are about to watch a movie you know she wants to watch. Anything she likes you should appear to be doing.
- Think about timing. Timing is very important with texting and covers many areas. You should mix up the timing of your replies, and the timing you contact her. You can reply fast and then reply slow, throwing in a good reason why you took so much time – again, remember to be doing something she likes. You can also contact her at random times of the day and the night. Be careful to not upset her in the middle of the night or send any of those desperate drunken messages. You can always tell her you cannot sleep because of another very good reason.
- Flirt in a fun way. Flirting takes practice. Girls will get turned off if you are too sexual in the beginning, or you have not yet entered that phase of your relationship. They already know you want it, and you should know they do too. Try to be intelligent and funny with your flirting. Again, don’t be like the rest of those guys out there.
- Give compliments. Giving compliments is very important all of the time, and you need to do this in an intelligent way with text. You don’t need to tell her how great, sexy and beautiful she is. You can tell her she was wearing very nice earrings when you met, or you can compliment her on her text. She is used to getting compliments and so if they are not different and apply to her own choices, she will not be impressed at all. Again, this gets down to being different, intelligent and creative.
- Be polite and use manners. All girls love polite and mannered guys. Be the same with your texting and use clean language. Writing properly is a part of texting manner. Always write in the same way and always remember to use your manners.
As always, never be too available, and don’t try to contact more than two times in a row. If she does not respond after two times you will need to wait several days or find another way to contact her. Texting is a game and she is playing you too.Do you want a step by step VIDEO course where I show you how to meet, attract and seduce the women of your dreams? FOR FREE? No joke, this is not BS. Just sign up with your email address and let me send you the 6 part seduction series today. I promise I will never spam you. Let me show you seduction through videos by clicking here.