For some reason everyone seems to put a lot of emphasis about “getting a date” with a girl. But almost no one tells you what you need to talk about in order to ATTRACT a girl to make her like you. Getting her attracted to you is probably more important than anything else, but for some reason a lot of people just seem to overlook this vital fact.
Getting a date is probably one of the main ways in our society where you’re given the opportunity to take a woman out in a romantic setting and express your interest in her.
However, you don’t actually need to get a date with a girl to get her to like you. Yes, I said that correctly. You can get girls to like you even before you take her on a date.
In fact, I prefer chatting to girls and making her feel attracted to me BEFORE we even go out on a date at all.
So what’s the secret about conversations with girls?
Open ended questions
Make sure to ask open ended questions about her life and her interests, so she can elaborate her answers and explain things to you further. So how does this help you? This will not only build intimacy between the two of you but it will also make her think that you are very interesting and cool to hang out with.
How will this happen?
She’s going to find the conversation very interesting, as the topic is all about her. As we all know, we love to talk about ourselves and so will she.
Just keep in mind that whenever she is talking, always show to her that you are listening to every word she says. It is really important to listen to her because she’ll be expressing herself freely and giving you an insight about her own personality. In other words, she’s telling you what she likes, so you can use this knowledge to later seduce her.
Great examples for you to steal
Here are some great open ended questions:
Some effective and ideal topics to start a conversation with are the following.
- Her memorable high school experiences- Was she a geek way back then or was she the most popular girl in school?
- Any particular accidents that she had before like small cuts or broken bones- Ask if she had any minor or major accidents before and ask her how she was able to cope and recover.
- Her first violation against the law- Ask her why it happened and how she dealt with the problem.
- Her most unforgettable childhood memories- Ask her about her friends when she was still a child and what was her favorite memory with them.
- Her college experiences- Was she a member of the cheer leading squad or was she one of the best students in their school?
- Her choice of music- Ask her if she loves classic music or the modern music.
- Her skills and talents- Let her talk to you about her hobbies, talents and other things she’s good at.
These are actually some of the general topics that you can use in your conversation. Now let me give you specific examples to help you really get to know her on a personal level.
- If you met someone who you really want to spend the rest of your life with but found out that he has only six months to live, would you still continue loving him? What if that person would cheat on you instead of dying, would you still accept him?
- If you are given the chance to live for 1000 more years but with an ugly face, would you say yes or no?
- Are you willing to live until you reach the age of 1000 given that you will have to survive it using a body of a 75 year old man?
- If you are given the chance to have a dinner party with 5 of the most important people in history, who will you choose to dine with and why
As you can see, each of these questions are designed for her to open up to you. They are not the boring and old mundane “interview” style questions that most people get. These questions really give you an insight about her personality and best of all, it makes her do all the talking.
All you need to do is sit back and relax and after the conversation, she’ll think that you’re the most interesting person she’s spoke to in a long time!
And the best thing about this is that you’re never gone to run out of single liner questions to ask. You’re never going to be put on the spot and you’re not going to worry about what stupid thing to say next. Heck, you won’t even need to worry about saying anything stupid what so ever because she’s going to be the one doing 95% of the talking.
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