Right after learning the right ways to pick up women, you must learn how to lure her back into your crib. Then after that you’re going to try and get her sexually attracted to you with the way you talk.
So you’re going to really know how to do some great dirty talking for her to want to be aroused.
You can follow two schools of thought when trying to do this.
You either become very sexually aggressive or you stay away from being sexually aggressive.
Those are the two schools of thought.
This is also the last phase you need to go through if you’re wondering “how to woo a girl” because after you manage to seduce her, then you’re going to have her for sure. So pay good attention on how to talk dirty to girls without looking like a sleaze bag, if you master this, then dating for you will be a whole lot easier. Now on with the tips.
Stay away from sexual innuendo?
The first one would teach you to get the date and not scare her away by giving sexual innuendos or doing dirty talks through text messages. If you do this, there is a high probability that you are going to throw her off and make her run for the door. Too much flirting using text is not going to work a lot of times. You may be really good in number closing, but it’s not really advisable to send text messages that blatantly suggest sex. This is not the right way on how to talk dirty to a girl.
I had this one experience with a hot Australian who was sun bathing a few days ago. I asked her to send over some pictures of her body, and she did. The photos showed her thighs, abdomen, and crotch. I was pleased by what I saw and instantly texted her, without thinking, “you’re bare as a child down there.” I got no response from her from that point. I asked her after a few days why she didn’t text back and she said it was way too fast to be saying those things to her. Text messages that are too aggressive sexually are most likely to offend women. This will also cause you to lose the phone numbers of girls you have worked so hard to get.
Know that girls often feel that it is their decision to draw the line when it comes to how your relationship progresses. She has to set the timeline. This does not mean that she didn’t like what I said. It’s just she felt that the timing was wrong. Always remember that most women feel that they need to be in control of whatever is going on with you. The early stages of a relationship often dictate who’s in control. They assume that they have to have the reigns and if you challenge that, they will get offended.
Here are 2 ways on how to talk dirty to a girl without offending her:
Keep things light and have fun
When you text her, make sure to keep things light and fun. You should aim first at getting her to come to you. When you are already with her, turn on the charm and be persuasive. This is where you can use your body language, kino, and good looks to build sexual tension and create the mood. Remember, the more “fun” you can make it, the easier you’re going to be able to disguise your dirty talk as a joke. You can always accuse her of trying to get you into bed and reverse the roles around. If you do this, it’s going to create an interesting dynamic where you steal all the lines that she normally uses against men trying to seduce her and use it against her. Once you do that she’s not going to know how to deal with you.
Try this:
You: haha… I can’t believe you said that! Keep your mind out of the gutter, I’m not going to sleep with you ok? I need to get to know you first and go on a few dates and feel attracted to you before I decide.
As you can see, if a girl hears those words… all she can do is deny that she’s been trying to flirt with you. Once she does that, you just accuse her more and the next thing you know, the two of you are joking and flirting with each other sexually.
Test the waters
One good thing that comes out of testing the waters by sending sexually suggestive text messages is that you are able to narrow down your choices. You will be able to know which girls are responsive to this kind of messages. You will know who to pursue. This should effectively tell you what type this particular girl is and if you should continue with her. Sure, this might off some girls, but you know the girls who do respond will like your dirty talk and that should make it easier for you to say what you really want.
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