Want to know how to talk to girls online so you can pick them up?
Well, if you want to chat up girls on facebook, skype, google plus, twitter, and many other social networking sites, then you should not miss these four essential strategies that you can use to get girls instantly attracted to you.
What you need to do is really set yourself apart from the crowd. There are a lot of hot and sexy girls online, but guess what? There are almost the same number of douches out there trying to compete with you to get their attention.
So you want to set yourself apart from these losers because she’s going to lump messages to gets into 2 categories. The category you do not want to be in, that’s 95% of the messages she gets, it’s going to her “douche box”. That’s reserved for guys who do stupid things like say “hey you’re hot” or comment on photos every single photo she has – even when they are strangers. The second category is the one you want to fall under and it’s for guys who are cool and totally stand out. This is the “potential to date box” and these are the messages that she’s going to actually respond to. You want to make sure you are in THAT box.
So how do you do it?
You got to do this.
Make yourself STANDOUT
- To “poke” or not to “poke”. Facebook’s “poke” feature is a fun way to get someone’s attention. However, if you want to use this to draw her attention, then it’s going to FAIL – especially if every other guys had just “poked” her too. Imagine if she receives 12 pokes from her admirers all at once, and you happened to poke her at the same time as every other guy, that would make you just “one of the other guys”. That’s why you have to stand out from the crowd and not just rely on a “poke” to get her interested in you.
- Intrigue her – I suggest you take some time to read her profile and then send her some inspiring quotes or some puzzling messages that relate to her profile as an interesting way to start a private message. You can also send her some funny but wholesome jokes to make her smile and laugh. But make sure you tailor it to her. Also, be sure to add some confidence in your messages to let her know that you are a man who is sure about himself. Just be careful, you want to be confident but do not sound too cocky or she might be turned off.
- Use spellcheck - Girls are very particular when it comes to grammatical errors. Especially good looking ones who get 10 messages a day from guys trying to pick her up. Make sure to make your sentences understandable. Spell each word correctly and use the proper punctuation. Show her that you can speak and write English fluently. No matter how handsome or cute you are, if you sound like a someone who failed kindergarden you’re not going to pass her test.
Use a dating plan – Online dating is becoming the norm these days. You can easily meet and seduce a lot of girls just from your computer. That’s why it’s essential that you draft up a seduction plan and follow it. If you don’t have one, buy one online. Trust me, they work. The benefits of using a seduction blueprint is that you will be given a step by step procedure on what to do. This ranges from showing you how to create a nice profile of yourself to the secrets in sending interesting messages that get a response. Having a plan is vital to your success, and most guys who fail at online dating do NOT have a plan.
Follow a set plan
Once you understand these 4 tips, make sure during your online conversation you:
- send messages that are interesting and that involve HER as the topic, comment on her profile, especially her pictures.
- don’t send TOO many messages at the start, and make your initial messages short. You don’t know her well enough to write a massively long message yet.
- avoid asking too many questions in one message, this is because she’s going to miss out answering on all of them and then will confuse the conversation.
- don’t mention sex or anything like that until you’ve exchanged a few messages.
- make sure you send a PRIVATE message. Do not post on the walls of girls that you do not know. This is because other people can see what you post and it makes you look desperate.
So there you have it. If you follow my advice and tips on how to talk to girls online, I’m sure you’re going to have a lot of success when you talk to girls.
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