There’s a lot of misinformation out there that might confuse you when it comes to learning about dating and seduction.
For example, your father or brothers might give you some tips on how to date a girl, but most of the time these guys themselves have no idea what it takes to really attract the girls that they are looking for.
Now, if you’re like most guys, you’ll probably end up living most of your life not knowing how to attract women and you’ll learn dating etiquette from watching Hollywood movies.
Learning dating from Hollywood will make you FAIL
If this sounds like you, then that’s probably why you’re online searching for advice on how to date girls.
Chances are you’re here, because the Hollywood BS about dating is WRONG and doesn’t get you the girls that you want feeling the want them to feel, and you’re totally baffled.
I totally know where you’re coming from because I was there too!
So let me tell how to date a girl PROPERLY.
1. No more Mr. Nice Guy
Now this may come off as a little unpleasant to hear. But have you ever wondered how hot girls always say they like “Nice guys” but end up with assholes?
Why is this the case?
This is because most “nice guys” are way too nice in the way they come across. They are too nice to make decisions, they are too nice to say no and they are too nice to really voice out what they want.
So this means in other words, these nice guys act as door mats for women to walk all over.
Did I mention that nice guys NEVER ask for sex?
What do jerks offer?
They always make decisions, they speak their minds and the always ask for sex.
In other words, jerks act like MEN whereas nice guys act like WOMEN.
That’s why it’s not surprising these guys get dates, because they act like REAL MEN!
If you want to learn how to date a girl, you’re going to have to man up and stop getting placed in the “friends zone”. You need to bite the bullet and be clear to the girl you want her as a sexual love interest and NOT just an average friend.
If you can do that, then you’re on your way to dating her.
2. Don’t be so needy
Girls find men irritating if they’re too needy.
Neediness can be in many forms, such as calling the girl too much, always wondering what she’s doing, getting jealous when she talks to other guys and pretty much doesn’t “get it” with women.
Another way to show neediness is ALWAYS being available for her. In fact, if you’re TOO available, that’s another sign that you’re being used by the women around you. For example, if she needs someone to drive her somewhere, instead of catching public transport, she calls you. But when it comes to sex, she thinks of someone else.
3. Don’t try too hard
I know a lot of guys try way too hard in an attempt to get girls to be interested in them. But what you’re actually doing is showing that you’re insecure and you need her attention to make yourself feel good. Once again this shows lack of confidence. What do I mean by this? Some guys will actually update their Facebook status’ all the time or posting messages on the walls of girls telling them that they just got another girl’s number.
I hate to tell you, but unless the girl that you’re messaging is already into you, she’s NOT going to give a damn, in fact it’s going to turn her off even more!
Another thing I see a lot of guys try to do to impress girls is to take on a “cool” hobby or sport and pretend they are a pro at it. For example, I know some guys who pretend to be breakdancers or hip hop dancers and dress the part. This means they walk around looking like a gangsta rapper and talking in ways that they think will make girls be like “oh wow, Snoop Dogg’s brother is in the house, I need to have sex with him”.
Sorry guys, if you’re acting like a try hard, not only do guys see it, but girls see it too. But what’s worse is that instead of guys just ignoring you, girls will talk about you and make fun of you behind your back. Thus totally killing your chances of getting with them.
So please, don’t try too hard.
These are three big mistakes that you need to avoid if you want to know how to date a girl. Make sure you stop doing these things and sooner or later you’ll be able to find a girl that suits you.
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