Read this is you want great PUA advice, because I’m going to show you how to become a Pick Up Artist (PUA) and how to pick up women – without the BS!
For those who don’t know what a PUA is, it’s pretty much the acronym for a guy who is able to pickup girls without raising a sweat. Normally he’s a total ladies man and knows exactly what to say at the right time in order to get women totally attracted to him in a sexual way.
The most important tip I can give you is to make sure that you spend some time developing your own confidence and self esteem. This the single most critical factor that is often overlooked, because when people start learning about seduction and dating, they seem to get caught up with learning pickup lines and routines.
They forget to realise the fact that they still need to be an interesting person and have the confidence to display who they are about in order to succeed long term.
That’s why confidence is IMPERATIVE.
Now that’s out of the well, I’m also going to dispel some common myths about dating and seduction.
First of all, let’s talk about looks.
You do not need to be handsome or looking like a male model to pickup girls!
Men today think they should be good looking in order to be able to attract women.
This is not true!
Did you know that having the right attitude and knowing what to say in order to make girls feel good will get you far more attention from women than looks? Yes, I said humour, which is a part of your personality, and has nothing to do with your looks.
Men with the ability to make a girl laugh have a bigger chance in getting the girls that they want compare to GQ model looking men, who are just boring as hell to be around. This is great news for most guys, because chances are you’re not born looking like a male model.
Also, another myth is that you need a flashy car.
Cars will get you only so far…
The reason why you seem to think women like men with nice cars and money is because most of the time, these kind of men display a lot of confidence. Sure, being rich and wealthy helps you develop the type of attitude that draws women, but you don’t to be rolling in cash like Bill Gates in order to be confident.
The fact of the matter is, there are plenty of average looking men out there who do not drive Ferrari’s and still have the ability to meet and seduce the women they desire.
Why is this the case?
Because, when the girls are around these guys, they have the ability to make women FEEL SEXY and AWESOME. This is much more attractive. If you’re able to seduce her mind with your personality, then that means more to her than what kind of car keys you posses.
Also, if you think you cannot get girls because you’re of another racial background or ethnicity from her, think again!
As I mentioned earlier, what’s more important is the way that you make her feel in your presence. This has everything to do with your personality and confidence.
That’s why I always shudder when I see newbies learning about “what’s the best pickup line” or “what’s the best dating routine”.
The fact of the matter is, you can say anything you want. As long as you make the girl feel good in your presence and you get her emotionally involved in the conversation. That’s what matters.
Everything else you say or do should be set up so you make her feel connected to your personality. The routines and gimmicks out there that you use are designed to make her like YOU as person, rather than fall in love with your routine.
Am I making myself clear?
You do not want to end up as an empty shell or a machine that’s really good at reciting the lines that someone else made up. The reason for this is, sooner or later you’re going to find a girl that you really want to connect with on another level. That is an emotional level. If you do not know how to demonstrate your emotional intelligence and display it in a way that will make her feel as if you’re trust worthy, then you’re not going to be able to hold real relationships.
You’re just going to be able to pick up girls one after another but will not have what it takes to make anything long term. If that’s what you’re looking for then, that’s fine. But if you want to get more involved with a woman, then you have to make sure you have a real personality to show her under all that PUA stuff.
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