So you have had the idea of picking up girls on Facebook, that’s great as you can do it from the comfort of your own desk, but it’s important that you keep these tips in mind.
Make sure you understand Facebook dating etiquette, otherwise you will be wasting a lot of time when you could be out having fun.
Rules when trying to date girls on Facebook
No Poking
When you find someone you think is interesting, don’t annoy her with the ‘poke’ function. A gorgeous girl would get so many pokes from random men that it would be driving her crazy, and besides, ‘poke’ tells her absolutely nothing about you or your personality!
All it does it make you appear to be really annoying, and that’s not what you want her first impression of you to be. You want to get her attention in a way that makes you look cool and special! Don’t do things that all the other guys do. She might think you’re just another online weirdo and won’t pay you any attention at all. There is no effort involved in sending someone a ‘poke’ and she will know that, and think you’re boring and have put no effort into trying to get to know her.
Instead, send her a funny and brief message to say hello, and to let her know that you’re interesting and unusual. You don’t have to write too much. You’re not like all the others trawling online, but you should definitely come up with something personalised for her. Show your sense of humour and confidence. Don’t be confrontational or arrogant, but let her know there’s someone interesting behind your monitor! If you can make it a little teasing that is great, but just be sure not to appear too arrogant. Give her a reason to talk to you, and soon she’ll be giving you her MSN and cellphone number, because she’ll want to talk to you some more. Then you can take it from there!
Make sure you proof read
Don’t forget to be careful of your spelling, grammar and punctuation. Run your message through a spell checker and check everything twice. You want her to know that you’re intelligent and actually went to school to learn! If you are careless with your message it won’t matter how cute or attractive you are, she’ll just think you’re stupid! And a stupid guy is no fun at all. Don’t use text speak, write each word properly to show that you have a level of education and respect for other people. It is an important point so make sure you proof read before you send.
Have a plan
Don’t expect women to fall into your lap – or inbox! – if you’re not going to make any effort. There are beautiful women out there who are jaded by all the men doing the same things to catch their eye, so make sure you are different and let your personality shine through. Make a plan and stick to it. Be methodical and message five interesting girls a day or whatever. You need to cast your net before you will catch any fish!
Make sure you read their profile
I know that a lot of guys get tempted to blast copy and paste a template message to all the girls and blast it out. But come on guys, seriously, when you receive spam mail in your inbox it’s pretty obvious. The same goes when women receive your email. They can tell that you didn’t take the time to read their profile and you’re sending the exact same message to like 30 other girls.
So what you need to do is actually put in some effort. Read her profile the very least and make funny comments and remarks about things you find interesting. At least this shows her that you care a little bit and you’re not one of those spam daters who just send as many messages to girls as he can.
Be ready for non response
I’m sure you’d like to think that every single one of your messages are going to get a stellar response. But the fact of the matter is, most of your messages are not going to get responded to. Why? Because the hot girls are going to be bombarded with messages all the time. So you really need to stick to her and make sure you get past her first line of defence. What’s that? She’s going to just ignore you. So you have to be ready for plan B. In other words, you’re going to have to send more than ONE message to get a response. You’re going to have a send a lot more than one I can tell you that.
Remember, if you want to succeed online on Facebook, you have to know what works and what doesn’t. You have to also understand that there are some things you can do and some things you cannot. I have outlined some of the basics here, but you can only find out the others by going online yourself. So what are you waiting for? Go and message that Facebook babe.
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